I think your reading of it is also totally fair and valid. I'm really glad to know this book has helped you so much! It really goes to show how every book has an audience. I've been in pretty dark places in my life, but I wasn't in a particularly dark place when I read this book.

You don't "suck!" Personality disorders are absolutely awful, and I'm so glad this book kept you here! <3 Major props for getting therapy. Just taking the first step is monumental. I'm also in therapy to work through childhood trauma.