I understand that. I love to read romances. I skip sex scenes if they exist. I notice I love it when the mysteries I read or watch on tv are not romantic. My brain is so into the mystery and thrill that I feel like there is no room for a romance. And if there is a mystery in the romance, I feel like the story ends too soon with unanswered scenes in the story. I like the fusion of romance and comedy but not romance and mystery. Mystery is a wholly different genre or world that compels our brains differently than a romance does.