If you’re going to be near Lexington expect rent prices to be $2k-$3k plus depending on size/bedrooms/updates etc.

Don’t know what you’re debt situation is like with monthly repayments but I think between the two of you for a half decent apartment, being able to afford “nice” lunches, and meet other monthly payments you guys both combined need to bring in a min of $200k and even then you might feel like you’re living pay check to pay check if you have other costly expenses.