SlightlyStoopkid t1_j643lod wrote on January 27, 2023 at 4:01 PM

Go to a club for one of your interests consistently

ShardsgetmeStoned OP t1_j64axul wrote on January 27, 2023 at 4:48 PM

I kinda got outta the concert/club scene cus I wasn’t making the healthiest lifestyle choices. But otherwise yeah. I was always down for a GD cover band or funk night

Rabl t1_j64feqv wrote on January 27, 2023 at 5:16 PM

I don't think that's what was meant by "club". Are you into running or birdwatching or model trains or TTRPGS or anything like that? There is probably an organization of similarly-interested individuals you can join.

ShardsgetmeStoned OP t1_j6i2bts wrote on January 30, 2023 at 2:14 PM

Omg do you know of any birdwatching societies in town??

SlightlyStoopkid t1_j64fm0e wrote on January 27, 2023 at 5:17 PM

I don’t mean a dance club. I mean if you play chess, you go to a chess club twice a week every week until you make some chess friends. You do not have to drink or do drugs or eat garbage to meet people and engage with your interests.