U/blargh4 already gave a good answer that I don't really think there's much to add to it

It depends on your ear shape honestly, the right side of my Dioko's with the stock tips didn't fit well in my right ear but after switching to the Spinfit W1 which is made of a slightly softer silicone and could contort to my ear shape I did manage to get a good fit. Generally foam tips cut off some of the treble frequencies and last shorter than silicone tips (because well, they're memory foam) so people generally recommend silicone tips over foam. As for the xelastec the general consensus is that it's very grippy and the silicone is quite soft, some have reported that it could memory over time and retain it's "squeezed" shape when it's in your ear despite being pulled out but I don't have any personal experience with the Xelastecs so take this with a grain of salt.

I don't know what the amping capabilities of the Redmi Note 10 is like but my Dioko's has it's subbass halved with it's soundstage completely taken away if I try playing it off of my Poco F1's jack, I think it would be instantly obvious if a dongle is required or not when you listen to your set for the first time