My solution is simple. If the vehicle coming towards you have lights that seem like they are on high, I simply turn my high beams on. If they turn their high beams off, then so do I. If instead if they flash their high beams to show me they are using their low beams, then I simply leave my highs on so I can see where I am going. My responsibility is to make sure I can see when their lights make it difficult even if it means using my highs against their overly bright lows.