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beaveristired t1_iz2s4h5 wrote

Reply to comment by queenofhaunting in Gendered Single-Occupant Bathrooms in MA by TheMajesticMoose08

Do you think hanging a sign that says “women’s room” prevents those things from happening?

You really haven’t given any good arguments for your position.

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queenofhaunting t1_iz2zjj3 wrote

no, but neither does prison stop all criminals. but it stops a good amount.

i don’t have a “position”. again, he should simply ask around and see if anyone objects. what are you so worried about if he does? that someone will object? the worst that can happen is he isn’t violating anyones sense of peace.

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beaveristired t1_iz3kt65 wrote

No, I can assure you it does nothing, but you aren’t able to admit when you don’t have an argument.

Take a look at my profile, see just how gender non-conforming I am, and tell me again I have no reason to think that non-gendered single sex restrooms don’t have a place in workplace.

You’re arguing that having a sign on the door somehow protects woman, while I, a woman, have been straight up harassed at my job due to my gender presentation. Nice.

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queenofhaunting t1_iz544w7 wrote

it protects women by societal convention. a woman cannot legally say anything if the man is allowed to be in there, no matter what kind of threats he’s been making outside of it. if he comments on her being on her period or purposely tries to walk in on her. i don’t know how to tell you these things happen very often.

i actually don’t need to look at you because we’re not talking about you. and i don’t think my “argument” insufficient because you have yet to explain why it’s a bad idea to first ask around in case anyone objects.

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beaveristired t1_iz60zh5 wrote

This isn’t a realistic argument. Sorry, but this is going in circles, and you’re really grasping at straws. Your fake scenario isn’t an issue with single occupant non-gendered bathroom. Meanwhile I’m talking about a REAL LIFE SITUATION that has happened to me , a woman, and has caused much harm. You’re frankly being very dismissive and disrespectful at this point. I suggest you learn how to listen and respect the experiences of other woman. Maybe learn how to take a L, too. I don’t waste time with ignorance and disrespect. Take care.

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queenofhaunting t1_iz678gd wrote

you literally never answered my one, singular question.

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beaveristired t1_iz67p3m wrote

You literally have no argument or point here to discuss.

You literally never admitted that maybe my real life situation deserves the same consideration as your unrealistic fake one.

Go haunt someone else, Queen.

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