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Unique-Public-8594 t1_j1ho0xn wrote

I met Ted.

What struck me was that in a receiving line he did not break eye contact with me until I did, something I would not expect of a politician in a crowd - a technique used to convey to me his respect and sincerity. It left a strong and positive impression.

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jp_jellyroll t1_j1i737z wrote

I mean, that’s something my boomer dad would be impressed by, “You didn’t get the promotion? Did you firmly shake your boss’ hand and make direct eye contact? Hmm, I don’t know what else you could have done here.”

The Cutco recruiter who tried to get me to sign up also shook my hand firmly and did not break eye contact, lol

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Unique-Public-8594 t1_j1ic41u wrote

True but politicians typically glance at you for a split second, nothing more, because they are thinking “next” and “how soon can I get out of here.” He seemed to be fully present, taking time with each person, genuine.

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jp_jellyroll t1_j1iel1o wrote

Are you confusing "politician" and "Big Tech CEO"?

A common stereotype of a politician is "shaking hands & kissing babies." Whenever there are voters or cameras around politicians know how to turn on the charm. They need votes and you don't win votes by giving voters the impression you don't have time for them or that you're not genuinely interested in their opinions (regardless if you really give a shit or not).

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