That’s true, you brought about a lot of good points but the romanticization of harmful activities aren’t portrayed as outlets to pain, rarely it ever is, the harmful activities are romanticized to show the truth or beauty in it which can’t necessarily affect naive minds as much as seeing people be happy because they can end their life and suffering by themselves.

The romanticization of such scenes imo also is nice kind of, it shows like an answer, even if it’s wrong, to any character hurting and truth