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reddituser6213 OP t1_iyi764q wrote

I see them around but I never know how they get such good social lives. I don’t get it

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Tristavia t1_iyi9stq wrote

There's a lot of "NH born and breed" small town folks that still connect with and hang out with their childhood friends. If you're a new comer you're going to have to put in a little effort, I moved here from NC and found that having a routine helped.

If I go to the same small coffee shop, the same gym, the same grocery, eventually friendly people say hi and build friendships. Hobby groups are also terrific; I joined the local garden club and quickly was asked to be on the board, and made a ton of friends that way.

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reddituser6213 OP t1_iyia4r2 wrote

Where did you find these hobby groups? Did you look online? Because I can’t really find anything

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Tristavia t1_iyibklk wrote

The local newspaper actually has good stuff, you can usually grab a copy at your local coffee shop (not dunks but a mom and pop shop). Most towns have a community facebook page, posting there or searching there is also a good start.

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