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tehdiplomat t1_jasqve2 wrote

If you aren't finding the social scene in Montclair, you kinda have to get to at least Hoboken/JC. Certainly Bloomfield is cheaper, but it's going to be the same social scene.

The other piece is.. you are 27 now, its not as easy to just stumble into people your age to socialize with you have to be more intentional about your pursuits. Find some meetups of things you are interested in.

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Left_Act_1 OP t1_javwk97 wrote

This is true and I'm hesitant to leave a more comfortable life in New Jersey on the assumption that geography will make most of the difference.

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tehdiplomat t1_jaw1ueo wrote

Yep definitely a possibility. Stabilize your rent, add intention to socializing and if that doesn't work, do something more drastic.

I'm in Bloomfield, what are your hobbies?

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