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masterofshadows t1_j9w8f9k wrote

Reply to comment by IceColdTear in Police: Husband shoots and kills wife in Monroeville, dies by apparent suicide after SWAT standoff by BecuzMDsaid

I won't dispute that. Both are certainly emotionally charged events and I can't find any statistics that break down the causes of IPH (intimate Partner Homicide).

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TooGood2beDrew t1_j9wakj0 wrote

The causes are insecure and violent male partners. Nothing a female spouse does should result in her murder.

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[deleted] t1_j9wbisn wrote

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-Diorama- t1_j9wirdo wrote

You already admitted you don’t have any evidence to back this claim up. You said “probably infidelity” implying that the wife drove the husband to this by an immoral act. That’s not “discussing triggering behaviors” that’s assuming that she cheated with zero evidence.

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masterofshadows t1_j9wj2wv wrote

People like you who see accusations when there are none are exhausting. Have a good night.

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-Diorama- t1_j9wjqzp wrote

Do you understand though why people are downvoting and replying to you in this way?

The person you replied to asked “why did this happen?”

You replied “probably infidelity.” Which is the same as saying “probably something SHE did to HIM that caused this.”

You don’t know that it was infidelity- but you said it was probable that it was infidelity despite lack of evidence.

These are the issues with your comment.

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masterofshadows t1_j9wkfro wrote

And others immediately jumped to pre-existing domestic violence and her leaving. Both are equally without proof. Both are possible. But your automatic assumption that I have some kind of issue with women is problematic and I will not sit by and be slandered. This will be my last reply as this is not a productive conversation. Good night.

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IntricateSunlight t1_j9ynsvn wrote

Even if it was infidelity on her part it doesn't excuse taking someone's life. Even if your partner cheats on you it doesn't mean you can just kill them. Domestic abuse or infidelity its still just as bad to kill someone.

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IceColdTear t1_j9wct87 wrote

Leaving is the most dangerous time for women and the time she is most likely to be murdered. However, the biggest indicator that she will be killed by her male partner is prior instances involving strangulation.

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