Awww, you assume I’m a fatass? Good for you.

I’m amazingly healthy and well off. As is my spouse and 4 kids. It’s just that I care about people, even if I’ve never met them. I want folks who suffer from diseases and poor health to have good health insurance because it’s the right thing to do. And I believe it costs us less as a society if we have access to proper medical care. (Just look at how shitty the life expectancies and economies are in the deep red states. You can’t have a thriving economy when everyone is sick.)

So while your concern trolling about me being a fat slob is way off the mark, sure, let’s talk about each other’s lives. Except I won’t guess and be wildly wrong.

• You are “40-something”.

• You seem overly proud of perceiving yourself as some top physical specimen. (Newsflash, almost all of my 40-something peers from grad school have also never/rarely been in the ER, and don’t have drinking or drug problems.)

• You are still dating in your mid-40’s, and find yourself having to deceive potentials partners about your entire belief system and shitty political views in attempts to get laid.

• On top of that, in your pea brain, any woman who has slept with more than 5 guys by age 40 is a whore:

> Meh, I'm a man who votes Republican but when it comes to dating, if I think I'm in the presence of someone who leans left and I'm attracted to them, I'll just flat out lie and say I'm a Democrat if the topic comes up. No real way for them to find out the truth (I keep all my papers in a safe and I have a common name so a Google search wouldn't turn up anything), so that solves that issue.

> But more importantly, with all the lies women tell about themselves in relationships (that scene in Clerks about "37 dicks" is a dead-on representation of how some women will use "weasel words" to essentially lie), me lying about my political affiliations is small potatoes.

> I'd rather date a woman who was actually a Democrat and lied by saying she was Republican than a woman who told me she has 5 sexual partners but warped definitions in her head in order to conceal the fact that she'd actually had 40.

(this was your third most recent comment)

And you are not emotionally available to consider that not everyone lies all the time like you.

For instance, assuming someone you were on a date with, who claims they were raped, MUST be lying:

> I lost interest in an actual real-life hot girl I knew after she told me her ex-boyfriend had r*ped her when they were dating. It seemed like something you wouldn't share with a guy you barely knew if it had actually happened, so I assumed she was exaggerating and gradually cut off all contact with her.

You are a massively insecure person. You are so dishonest and lie for everything you want, you can’t understand why anyone would be honest with you.

You can’t comprehend that most folks are good people who don’t have to lie about who they are to get what they want.

And at some level you know that. Otherwise a woman who has dated more than 5 men wouldn’t be a threat to your low self-esteem.

Best of luck finding a “worthy” partner.

And please keep lying to folks since you know you are a shitty person who lies to romantic partners because you know damn well nobody would give you the time of day if you revealed your true self to them.

Do you pop out at parties? Are you unpoopular?

You should start Drinking or do some drugs.

They are fun!

You're aware that otherwise healthy people can get diseases, right? Yes being overweight makes many conditions more likely, but it is entirely possible to be thin and get cancer.

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