DearMrsLeading t1_ixj3y9m wrote on November 23, 2022 at 8:40 PM

Reply to comment by thegodfather0504 in Iran Protests: Covert testimonies reveal sexual assaults on male and female activists as a women-led uprising spreads by hoseiin

Men have done that to themselves and many still continue to do it. It should be recognized but it (often) isn’t and a large part of that is men minimizing the feelings of other men. You can’t have a conservative manly man culture that emphasizes strength without losing the ability to be vulnerable with each other.

Edit to say I’m referring to US culture specifically.

thegodfather0504 t1_ixj7j1i wrote on November 23, 2022 at 9:04 PM

i don't buy that. It's illegal to assault or kill man. Why not rape?

Making laws is different than dealing with feelings. If women's rape is death worthy, men's rape should atleast be jail worthy.

DearMrsLeading t1_ixj8ybd wrote on November 23, 2022 at 9:14 PM

I’m not going to assume what country you’re from or the laws there, I realize that I assumed you’re American for some reason, my bad.

The US generally doesn’t use the death penalty for rapists unless they also murdered the victim. Even then it’s not very common. The US has been slowly working to remove gendered language from our laws regarding sexual assault as well but it’s a long process that’s only partially completed. Conservative pushback about “being a man” is a large part of that problem, which was what I was referring to in my first comment.