Well written Op... it is a very tough situation and kudos to you for keeping this burden on your own.. but.. immagine that at the end of our life, we get to be in front of two portals..one red, one green. And we enter not the one we want but the one we deserve...which one do you think you will get? Reference to: r/a:t5_34fjb u/KMApok Let's Test A Theory..... I don't know how to make the link thing, so I just copy pasted. It is a sub that is a bit hard to find. I hope I don't offend anyone by posting here about an other op, but if I am in the wrong, let me know and I will delete it.