ashleyxokidd t1_j5rfwxh wrote on January 25, 2023 at 1:08 AM

Reply to comment by Blubelle85 in Warnings to the wannabe cryptid hunters: How to actually handle demons of nature by girl_from_the_crypt

Her father resents her because she was her mothers favorite. Over time due to Fiona being the one who would inherit the land her mother nursed all her love and attention toward her consequently hurting not only her other children and I’m sure it hurt Fiona to watch her siblings feel that way but it really resonated with her father in an awful way. I think a lot of it has to do with you being so much like your mother. That love hate relationship they had (aside from real love for one another) as much as it bothered Fiona’s dad he thrived off of it as well. He probably feels that if her mother hadn’t spent so much time with her she could’ve spent it with him and now Fiona is just a painful reminder to him instead of seeing her as a blessing as she is just like her mother. Pffft MEN. Horrible creatures 😈😝

Blubelle85 t1_j5s4h7f wrote on January 25, 2023 at 4:14 AM

I read your line, "I think a lot of it has to do with you being so much like your mother." and was 😯😯 someone from real life is totally calling me out!! Then i realized you were talking hypothetically... although you're not wrong and weirdly enough, it is why my dad hates me!! Oh well, my mom and I have a great relationship, so while I love you dad...I don't need your approval anymore! 😁

ashleyxokidd t1_j5s4qi7 wrote on January 25, 2023 at 4:16 AM

It’s okay love!!! I’m right there with you! Both of my parents see pieces of the other in me and make it well known they hate it when it’s seen😅🥹

Blubelle85 t1_j5s5uvy wrote on January 25, 2023 at 4:25 AM

hugs We've got this!! It took me a long time to realize I don't need others' approval. As long as my kids are happy, healthy(within my powers), and treat others well, then I'm succeeding! I'm still figuring things out.

ashleyxokidd t1_j5s9yyy wrote on January 25, 2023 at 5:03 AM

Awe you’re so sweet! :) it’s so refreshing/hard to come across other gentle(but fiery🔥) souls on the internet. That’s all that matters though! As long as you’re trying for them and showing them what it is to respect and love you can’t ask for much more! I thought I knew everything at 18 here I am 3 years away from 30 and feel like I don’t have a clue! Lmao. I try my damndest not to care what others think of me as well I’ve always struggled with being the anxious care too much and apologize for everything type but as I get older that has waned a good bit. It does get exhausting but as you said after a certain point/age you think how much energy youve wasted on others and realize it’s not worth it. It’s truly liberating. If they don’t love you the way you are quirks and all then fuckkkkemm! I don’t have kids myself yet but I can only imagine what that love feels like. So many take having a family or a close knit family for granted. It’s a hard thing to watch when it’s something you’ve struggled with/wanted all your life. Sorry for the crazy rambling though!! Is it apparent I have no friends irl anymore??😅 thank you for being so sweet and kind! It’s a rarity these days. Sending much love and happiness to you and your little ones :)

-ash 💜