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freezerbreezer t1_ixtn9rm wrote

Why do nude bodies in such large numbers don't feel arousing? Is there a number for everyone?

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Lukarreon t1_ixu1n2y wrote

It's not the genitals itself that is arousing, but whom it's attached to.
It's why so many people pay for OnlyFans when there's plenty of free porn around; the woman interacting with you makes their porn much more attractive, I assume.

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menlindorn t1_ixu9ib1 wrote

I assume

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Lukarreon t1_ixua9oz wrote

... *wink*

But seriously, I once subscribed to one OnlyFan content creator (and wanted to subscribe to another one), but I cancelled it.
It's unreasonably expensive, like $20-$50 US dollars per month, or sometimes per single video.

Honestly not worth it.

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vashoom t1_ixun9my wrote

Nudity isn't inherently sexual, period. Plus crowds of people don't register as many individuals but as a single new entity in your brain (i.e., one crowd). A thousand of the most attractive people in the world all grouped together in a crowd still just read as "crowd". You'd have to actively filter out people and focus on one or two at a time to see them as individual, attractive people again.

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Nekopawed t1_ixvhzcw wrote

I did a nude figure drawing session recently. Group of artists and one nude model. Didn't feel sexual at all. I'm just staring at legs, feet, hands, face etc. Like it was very clinical. I feel the same way about getting nude in front of a doctor, they aren't a person judging me they're just doing their job.

Like you said, nothing inherently sexual about being nude. Like showering at gym or school. Wish we were more body positive instead of shaming it all.

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vashoom t1_ixvjwub wrote

Yeah I think the sexualization comes from treating the human body as something taboo which has always seemed weird to me. Breasts and genitals aren't any different than by other body parts, and history shows us people will sexualize anything if the culture makes a taboo of it (uncovered ankles, back of the neck, whatever).

But it's hard to change.

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Nekopawed t1_ixvkmco wrote

I'm going to a traditional hot spring with friends for my birthday in February and we are all going to get a bit more familiar with one another due to it. No bathing suits allowed. I'm sure there will be some giggling and nerves but soon feel normal.

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dox1842 t1_ixw7l9b wrote

In japan?

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Nekopawed t1_ixw97a8 wrote

No, it's in northern Virginia Pembroke Springs it is Japanese styled though

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Cloaked42m t1_ixvyebk wrote

It's a time and situation thing. It's pretty easy to get over the yay boobs moment. Then it's just nudity.

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mtgguy999 t1_ixzh0p9 wrote

Well most of the pics in the article people are facing away so you don’t see much. The one with some titties is very low resolution and hard to see details

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RolletRogue t1_ixv0l1v wrote

Yes, when it does not look like a corpse pile or pile of seals, all while their faces are hidden. Of course they have a hot body as well. Even if they have hot bodies, their position should be in a sexy position (to each their own of course) and not lying down like the one in the image. I dont think ive seen anyone do that lying down pose in their images, nude or not.

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