As you get older you develop more sensitivity to certain sounds, it’s a stupid thing that happens. Plus, they have all the time in the world to think about it. But their problems shouldn’t affect your reasonable standard to exist. I’ve had similar issues in the past, and no amount of giving them gifts, acknowledging them, or placating them will work. You deserve the freedom to exist. Those are the sounds of life, and you have to hear them when you live close to people.