I’m in a similar position. My job is so flexible, I work 100% from home and have been able to keep my kid home with me so far (we did move my mom down so she can watch him when I need as he’s getting older). I do travel regularly, but I have excellent benefits and good pay. Could I make more? Absolutely, but it’d require far more responsibility, almost definitely I’d have to be in the office, etc. It’s a tough spot, but right now I choose the benefits and flexibility