Unless y'all's mortgage is nuts, you don't like your job, or you just happen upon something wonderful... Why screw with what works?

You guys have a pretty good household income even in a HCOL area and are already meeting all obligations and recommended savings. Changing jobs and stressing yourself out seems worthless unless you hit the job jackpot.

I quit my job to be a stay at home dad. It's pretty great but only one kid so far. If your husband keeps pressing you about jobs and you don't want to hear it, float the SAHM idea.