Submitted by TheGoodfella88 t3_11en2iu in relationship_advice

We’ve been married since September 2020 and been together since May 2018.

I don’t know what to do. I told my wife I didn’t feel good and needed to lay down. (I have a sinus infection and ear infection. Only ate breakfast) I went upstairs to bed. 5 minutes later she comes in with our 21 month old and said could you watch her. I said I don’t have anything to watch her with. (We’ve just moved in to our new home from our other home Thursday.) I didn’t have her milk cup and didn’t have any food. She then grabs our kid and says, “daddy doesn’t want to see you right now.” She went back downstairs. I feel crushed and devastated. I don’t want to do or think. Can I get advice?

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HatsAndTopcoats t1_jaf2ba6 wrote

Why was she more capable of taking care of the kid with what was available in the house, than you were?

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TheGoodfella88 OP t1_jaf3ats wrote

Our living and kitchen are open. She was in the living room and the items were in the kitchen.

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