SugarGlitterkiss t1_jaexj6x wrote on February 28, 2023 at 11:05 PM

You know, you're pretty much past the proposal part. One of you has proposed living together, she's basically proposed you get married if you want that to happen, and you said no.

You're at at impasse, so unless she can accept a marriage proposal from you and agree to live together as an engaged couple (for at least a year, with a firm date to either set a wedding date or break up) it sounds like this isn't going to work.

Tomatomir OP t1_jaeyc3o wrote on February 28, 2023 at 11:11 PM

The part that bothers me the most is the fact that it isn't even her own will.. she just doesn't want to get cut off from her family for not following their "rules".

They won't allow us to live together till we are officially married.. even proposing won't "solve" this issue..

SugarGlitterkiss t1_jaf0mrk wrote on February 28, 2023 at 11:27 PM

It is her will. And it's been your will to stay with a girl who follows her family rules. It sounds like you might not have made the best choice for yourself.