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trishsf t1_jacwko0 wrote

You start with I didn’t get the abortion. Do it in person. He deserves to know this and he sounds supportive. It’s his baby too. Congratulations 🎈

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throwrajnbg OP t1_jad07m4 wrote

He is supportive and very loving. I just wish I knew his stance on it, what did he want me to do? In this case, I would like for his opinion to influence my decision, despite him thinking it was best if it didn't. I thought so too, but that was before.

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Lithogiraffe t1_jadb8is wrote

Yeah there's literally no additional advice that we could all give you besides-- Tell him. What you were knowing that you have to do anyway. Where do you start? Literally that you didn't go through with it. That's where you start.

But this is pretty heavy conversation you're about to drop on him. However he reacts initially, give him a little space to get his thoughts and feelings in order. You might not be able to have the full conversation All at once with a United decision right then

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