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Interesting-Month-56 t1_jaevdz1 wrote

I don’t know why people do this shit. Because a random letter or email with no details is just sus.

Basically you have three choices.

  1. ignore it - god knows who or why they sent it and malice and crazy are pervasive.

  2. follow your gut - don’t necessarily believe it but reflect on your relationship and behaviors and check out any threads that seem to be suspicious.

  3. talk to your SO - I don’t intend confrontation, but that’s an option. It will likely result in a denial and gaslighting if its true, anger if it’s not (and if it’s true). Possibly in violence. So be careful.

Personally I would go with option 2 first and then switch to either 1 or 3 once I had more information.

But you can’t spend your life pursuing random things, so you have to decide what to believe and when.

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