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CephalopodSpy t1_jaeajh9 wrote

He's not being a good friend to you, and you don't need to feel guilty. If he's consistently asking you and pushing for it after you've repeatedly said no, he's outright ignoring boundaries you're setting. If you want to try to maintain any sort of friendship you need to let him know you're uncomfortable and that this behavior isn't appropriate, but if he doesn't stop you may want to put some distance between the two of you.

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[deleted] OP t1_jaeb5in wrote

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CephalopodSpy t1_jaebisk wrote

If he loses you as a friend it would be the consequences of his own actions. Coercing someone into physical intimacy is NEVER ok regardless of anyone's sexuality. Using your friendship as ammunition to try to get you to do so makes it even worse.

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SalamanderPop t1_jaedunj wrote

So he wants to get sexual with you and gets angry and manipulative when you don't consent? That's just shitty and a little rapey.

I didn't meet a girl and have sex until I was 22. I didn't go around to my female friends and concoct some sob story to get them to give me a handy.

We all get attracted to people that are not into us or are unavailable. Those of us that aren't assholes let it go and move on. Your friend is not acting like a good person.

This is one of those opportunities to set a boundary like "don't ask again or I'll stop hanging out". And then stick with it.

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tymacpherson t1_jaebl9h wrote

I’m sorry but anyone who pressures you to make out and gets mad when you say no is a horrible person and friend.

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the-mirrors-truth t1_jaea5v4 wrote

Well you're a better friend then he is.

His situation is horrible but that doesn't mean he gets a free pass to sexually harass you.

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GillyMilly t1_jaeci6h wrote

You can tell your friend to fuck off

Cuz if he is insisting to make out with you (even tho u are straight) there is a serious problem here.

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Lilpops13 t1_jaehu4r wrote

Lol not your friend, what he doing is mad predatory idc. Watch how he’s gonna call you homophobic now

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