Your wife is literally spoiled fucking rotten. LMAO. I do all doctors appointments, grocery shopping, all cooking, all baths, breastfed, all wake-ups, and all bed times (plus all dishes, and about 50% of all household tasks, including pet care for our senior dog) because my man works hard. He is a very involved and loving father, don't get me wrong, but he is exhausted and I understand. He does all the laundry, 50% of vacuuming, and 50% of trash duties. He pays all bills. I am currently heavily pregnant, and we have a toddler. * I still do most of those things (except breastfeeding now.) He gives me at least 1 hr to myself every night so I can unwind a little, too. I've never had a Nanny. My Mom died when I was 21 and my Dad is a nut job- I would never leave him alone with my kids. Lol. She has WAY, WAAAAAAY more free time than she's acknowledging. Tell her if she wants more of a social life she can get a part-time job on the 3 days you have a Nanny at the house.