Your husband sounds like an abusive asshole. Ya know, it’s the fucking law to pay people. They could go to the labor board or similar depending on state and file complaints and get you guys sued and shut down. And him yelling at you is bullshit.

Have you talked about this with your therapist? Just because someone isn’t hitting you doesn’t mean they’re not abusive. My partner had never yelled at me. Ever. And he’d get to do that precisely one time.