Good for your husband for shutting that down. I would have done the same. I've gone out with too many females in that past that would call me Jealous, controlling and insecure if I brought something like this up to them about there male coworker always around them. Good to see what looks like mainly females not shaming OP for this, or maybe because roles are reversed, IDK.

Good for OPs husband. It's amazing how when you meet someone who shares the same principals and values as you, all those insults are not a thing. You both have respect for each other.