BicycleConsistent681 OP t1_jegy7s3 wrote on March 31, 2023 at 11:03 PM

Reply to comment by UnsightlyFuzz in I [34M] struggle helping my fiancé [32F] process traumatic cases she gets at work. by BicycleConsistent681

So when you she comes to me, venting about what’s she’s working on, you want me to tell her to talk to her supervisor about it instead? Yeah i can’t imagine that going down too well tbh and dosent seem very emotionally supportive.

UnsightlyFuzz t1_jegzdg8 wrote on March 31, 2023 at 11:12 PM

Well, what is her line of work and what is this secondarily traumatizing content? (without any identifying information)

When I worked as a therapist, this was considered appropriate and healthy. Similarly, lawyers can discuss their cases - within certain guidelines - with professional peers. Nobody is supposed to keep all this bottled up.