joe-dirt-1001 t1_jefjtqo wrote on March 31, 2023 at 5:19 PM

It's a single holiday.

He will get home and tell you how all the guys were doing it and he just had to fit in.

[deleted] OP t1_jegvd0a wrote on March 31, 2023 at 10:41 PM

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ArrivalIcy9717 t1_jefkpjl wrote on March 31, 2023 at 5:25 PM

one of the other guys has a girlfriend too which reassured me slightly when he first started going out loads

joe-dirt-1001 t1_jefllm6 wrote on March 31, 2023 at 5:31 PM

I get the going out and it's to be expected. Any of them being married or having partners means nothing in my book. In this situation it boils down to your trust in your partner and hopefully you know some of the friends and their history.

Having said that, he's apparently lying to you, and disrespecting you by not being an adult and having a real conversation about what's going on. He's going to come home and spew some BS about you ruining his vacation, but what really happened is you called him out on his behavior and he is throwing a tantrum.

ArrivalIcy9717 t1_jefny32 wrote on March 31, 2023 at 5:46 PM

Oh yeah 100% I never had an issue with him going out. I know all of the friends he’s on holiday with and they’re all decent guys.

He’s already saying I’m making him anxious and that he’s just trying to enjoy his time on holiday but he can’t because he’s worried about me. Not worried enough to actually message me and check in though

joe-dirt-1001 t1_jefofi5 wrote on March 31, 2023 at 5:49 PM

Right?

Good luck.