We have been together 6 months and one thing led to another and I ended up having intercourse with my s/o, we used a condom and I finished and pulled out after a while. I wiped clean and made sure everything was off, but we immediately agreed to keep going so I put on a new condom and kept going but I felt something weird and about 15 seconds later, I explained that something felt off and pulled out. I checked and the whole condom was ripped and only the ring remained. She's two days late on her period so far and her stomach feels really bloated and hard, but she has been eating a surprising amount recently which also increased our fear. She's hasn't bled or anything since we had sex which was last week. This was on the 22nd and was 8 days after ovulation. We're still concerned that I may have gotten her pregnant and I need someone to help answer my question.

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peakpenguins t1_iujxrxu wrote on October 31, 2022 at 10:06 PM

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Get a pregnancy test. Hell, go to a dollar store and get several (they're just as accurate as the expensive ones). Also keep in mind for future situations, Plan B does exist...

NeverPostAnything69 t1_iujxwdx wrote on October 31, 2022 at 10:07 PM

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Go get a pregnancy test. If her period is late and she is actually pregnant, it should show on a test.

Repulsive-Ad-2436 OP t1_iujy17x wrote on October 31, 2022 at 10:08 PM

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Replying to peakpenguins (#407,796)

Thanks I'm planning on doing that as soon as possible.

ExpressingThoughts t1_iujyt0p wrote on October 31, 2022 at 10:14 PM

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A pregnancy test would give you a better answer than us. Yes there's a chance she could be pregnant.

Princess-She-ra t1_iujyzig wrote on October 31, 2022 at 10:16 PM

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Replying to Repulsive-Ad-2436 (#407,910)

Take some deep breaths and try to stay calm. It's possible that she is pregnant, it's possible that the stress is causing the delay. (Happened to me a few times). First things first of course is to do the test and find out.

Schnarkysquirrel t1_iujzctk wrote on October 31, 2022 at 10:18 PM

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Noone will know if she's pregnant. It's obviously possible, but 2 days late isn't a sure sign.

Wait a week or 2 and do a test. (Or do tests daily if it would be an unwanted pregnancy and your local abortion time limit is something ridiculous like 5/6weeks.)

museumsplendor t1_iujzl4t wrote on October 31, 2022 at 10:20 PM

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All you can do is wait.

Having kids young is wonderful.

You will be DONE in your early 40s.

The world makes you think kids are tumors.

Kids are the reason we are here.

luvduvbunny t1_iujzxr4 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 10:23 PM

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Reddit can’t tell you she’s pregnant

A pregnancy test can

hBoBh t1_iuk0l71 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 10:28 PM

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if you're that worried, have her piss on a stick

SnooFoxes4362 t1_iuk2qiw wrote on October 31, 2022 at 10:45 PM

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Next time something like this happens go buy the morning after pill. It will bring on a period and end a brand new pregnancy. This only works the next morning and costs about $40 in the USA. It’s sold over the counter in pharmacies here. There is another set of pills (2), which can be used to terminate a pregnancy up until about the 9th week. This is called a medical abortion and can be ordered online if it’s legal to get an abortion where you live