I think the lists so far are pretty good... I'd only add....

1. Ambitious
2. Respects others (nice to wait staff etc...)
3. Nice to animals
4. Can cook, clean, doesn't NEED a woman, but wants one.
5. Takes care of himself physically
6. Doesn't drink to excess and when he does drink, doesn't become a different person.
7. Honest. faithful, protective...
8. Doesn't question your whereabouts 24/7, basically insecure.
9. Same views on raising or not raising a family, disciplining kids etc...
10. Isn't easy to anger, isn't always grumpy, positive outlook on life.

Just off the top of my head...