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[deleted] OP t1_iuk35hy wrote

Reply to comment by razzledazzle626 in Calling Boyfriend Daddy by [deleted]

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razzledazzle626 t1_iuk370l wrote

Yes, the advice is to respect his boundary.

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[deleted] OP t1_iuk3bhr wrote

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lily3388 t1_iuk49ro wrote

So… why aren’t you respecting his boundaries?

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Mixedupmay t1_iuk4ti9 wrote

Dude, you can't possibly be serious? You're trolling right? My bf is also younger than me and the last thing I'd do is give him any bate to call me a cougar or dear god - "Mommy". Like... be grateful he stopped at "cougar" and respect his boundaries. He's not into your kink, don't force it on him. And if it matters to you that much ("the only thing that makes you happy" - seriously?) then find someone your own age or older, they are more likely to enjoy being called daddy. But also, just... work on your understanding of consent and stop trying to figure out how to force your bf to bend to your will, it's not ok, he's a person, not a sextoy.

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420basscat t1_iuk5nc9 wrote

I think a better take away is you two are not compatible. If it’s something you really like and he really hates that’s really all there is to it.

You can’t force him to be ok with it. Just as he can’t force you to not want to call him daddy. If it’s something you REALLY like to do and cannot honor his request for you to stop then at the end of the day you just are NOT compatible.

Neither of you are wrong for your preference, sometime you just won’t see eye to eye with people.

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