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athena2367 OP t1_iuk7oja wrote

Reply to comment by A2Z-THC in Man-hating, controlling friend(s) vs slightly new, confrontational, loud boyfriend by athena2367

Idk if you read the entire story (there are more comments), but the more I think about it and talk to other people about it, the more I begin to agree with you.

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A2Z-THC t1_iuk8b7f wrote

Sounds like a "misery enjoys company" scenario. If i listened to my "friends" at the time id be with out my wife of 15 years that is my everything.

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athena2367 OP t1_iuk92wh wrote

That’s good to know!! Again, I’m not saying he is 100% the love of my life, but this is the first actual guy I’ve brought around him and they were so mean to him and me it was crazy. I’m like, if he IS the one, then I don’t want anyone treating him like that?? And if not, I don’t want my friends treating THE ONE that way!!

I also tried to look at it as if it were the other way around and one of my bf’s friends was baiting me by saying I had “red flags, he didn’t trust me, I was a child, etc.” and tbh I’d probably do the same thing as my bf (if not worse, by yelling at his friend at the party and making things a whole lot more awkward).

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