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Powerful_Put5667 t1_iuiehmi wrote

At the least it’s just rude to be a no show for a meet up over the weekend. You have every right to make your own plans too. The fact that he’s in essence just dumping you to do something else with no notice to you at all is wrong. I hope he at least tells you why he ghosted you. If he doesn’t that indicates that he is not as into the relationship as you are and you should take the opportunity to make your own weekend plans. You have a standing date and he is standing you up. Please broaden your circle of friends and activities because this guy is not as into your relationship as you are. You may now be the back up to his meeting someone else. In other words he is using you. Please move on.

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Ok-Beyond1721 t1_iuifhiq wrote

Okay, I mean that's a bit far. We've been together for almost 2 years and this has happened 3 times tops, which is still frustrating but it's not like he's constantly ditching me.

I know that he's having a family thing for Halloween (I saw it on his mum's insta) so I know why he didn't come by now and it's fine, it just frustrating that he didn't tell me cause I always make sure to keep at least one day of the weekend free for him and said no to other plans that I could've gone to.

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