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pearlyquartz t1_iujhwjb wrote

Reply to comment by DehDani in My partner of 5 years wants to move out but not break-up... I feel so defeated. by [deleted]

It's not a horrible thing, it's an honest thing. Had he insulted her that would've been something else, but if your partner says that, and you don't dig deeper to find out what's going on, then you really ARE horrible to come to.
Op sounds clingy, like unhealthily clingy.

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DehDani t1_iujqo2r wrote

Nah...if someone has issues in a relationship, it's up to them to fully spell out the issues. And if you love someone, then you do it in a way that's honest and still kind.

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pearlyquartz t1_iujy2ky wrote

Can we let humans be human and have human emotions?? She sounds in denial, which makes me think this is ver go to attitude when conflict arises. For someone to get to the point of saying what he said it's gotta take enduring a lot. It's a normal response if her attitude is anything to go by.

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