Illustrious_Video687 t1_iuj0te5 wrote on October 31, 2022 at 6:19 PM

Reply to comment by Round-Midnight-7011 in I hurt my BF’s feelings and don’t know how to earn back his forgiveness by [deleted]

Not any specific insecurities that I know of.

I’m assuming that I might have said it to get a rise out of him or as some fucked up salty drunk joke. I know that my friends and I clown on each other a lot drunk or not but I usually don’t do it around him.

Round-Midnight-7011 t1_iuj1knp wrote on October 31, 2022 at 6:24 PM

Ok, well, sit down and think things through and get an answer that is more definitive than "I'm assuming". This isn't the time for ambiguity.

Then, when you talk, explain to him why you said that. Apologize again sincerely once, but don't belabor it. Reassure him that you don't feel that way, and use specific examples to back it up.

After that, you've really done all you can do. I don't think you should bend over backwards too much for a comment like this.