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davev9365720263 t1_iujamfu wrote

Reply to comment by MarriedLife7 in Man walked up to me and the store and said I was beautiful. Is it overreacting to be bothered by it? by Lucky_Daikon_95

Men are beginning to not approach women at all because giving compliments or even saying hi is considered creepy.

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Missmoni2u t1_iujcjn6 wrote

Good.

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davev9365720263 t1_iujddmh wrote

Who hurt you?

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Missmoni2u t1_iujfuco wrote

Thats not a witty response anymore lol. In any case its really just not well received half the time so it's probably good that they stop approaching random women and making them uncomfortable.

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MarriedLife7 t1_iujdfw9 wrote

Please this is B.S. People are still dating all the time. Just because you feel bad you can't hoot at a woman who walks by you doesn't mean men can't approach women.

She is allowed to feel how she is in the situation that occurred. You might not like it that women are able to express their dislikes of these situation but you shouldn't try to control how they feel.

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davev9365720263 t1_iujdjjo wrote

Who hurt you?

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childofcraigslist t1_iujgvwu wrote

Probably a large volume of men consistently harassing her over the course of a lifetime since she was like 13, which is around the age most women report first getting catcalled.

If men want to point the finger at someone, blame creepy men who ruin it for everyone else, not women who are just trying to go about their day.

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davev9365720263 t1_iujhpq2 wrote

Who hurt YOU?

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childofcraigslist t1_iuji6tj wrote

I literally just told you. Who hurt you that you're a broken record when women tell you exactly why they don't allow you to harass them with impunity?

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davev9365720263 t1_iujidap wrote

Who hurt you? Come on, you can tell us.

Who hurt you at 13?

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childofcraigslist t1_iujipo5 wrote

I literally told you. It's...like, RIGHT there in my comment.

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davev9365720263 t1_iujj18t wrote

Thanks for admitting you are taking the acts of a few boys when you were 13 and then painting all males with that same brush because you are immature and can't get over things.

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childofcraigslist t1_iujjflb wrote

Honey, please read my comment before getting offended. I explicitly said a lifetime of harassment BEGINNING at 13.

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davev9365720263 t1_iujjotk wrote

I did read your post. You had something happen at 13 and now see it everywhere because you couldn't get over it.

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childofcraigslist t1_iujlpfj wrote

I am kind of astounded that someone can be so stubborn and so wrong at the same time. It's okay that you didn't understand my comment but it's embarrassing to double down on it.

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davev9365720263 t1_iujlzeg wrote

Oh, I understand it quite well. It is you who doesn't understand herself.

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childofcraigslist t1_iujm7am wrote

Thanks, Socrates. I'll be sure to embroider that on a pillow. It's your business if you want to continue blaming women for the fact that they want nothing to do with you.

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davev9365720263 t1_iujmalo wrote

You can go along with your life hating men. I don't actually care what you think because you have shown you are nothing but a sexist bigot.

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childofcraigslist t1_iujmgh5 wrote

I love men. I don't love creepy men like you, nor do most women. I defended the guy in the post in another comment. If women are creeped out by you every time you talk to them, that's a you thing.

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davev9365720263 t1_iujmk13 wrote

Except you think all men who approach women are creepy. You hate men.

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childofcraigslist t1_iujmop2 wrote

I defended the guy in the post, as I said. I know reading is hard.

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davev9365720263 t1_iujnap3 wrote

You didn't defend the guy in the post.

You don't know me and call me creepy for defending the guy in the post and for defending my reply.

You are a sexist and hate men.

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childofcraigslist t1_iujnjzh wrote

Yes I did. From my comment defending him from someone calling him gross:

> He literally walked away after she said thank you.

> I hate street harassment to my very core, but a simple compliment with no expectation of anything further is not harassment or flirting.

If women always think you're creepy, you're the common denominator.

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