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Livehardandfree t1_iyf5gv2 wrote

Sorry to say this but if he hide and went out of his way to set that. There's a reason.........and probably not a good one.

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AnsweringLiterally t1_iyf6gh1 wrote

Right! Probably got tired of being asked.why he was online and not responding to texts so he hid his online status. Very nefarious indeed!

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International-Aside t1_iyf5nma wrote

How late are we talking? Are they important calls/texts? Is it possible he just wants "him" time without being criticized for it?

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Enough_throwaway3690 t1_iyf5zzi wrote

Suppose I have texted him something early in the morning, and he replies after 3 to 4 hours saying that he just woke up (when I saw him being online the whole time). Then he denies that and now he has turned it off. I do not mind if he tells me something like "hey I woke up but was busy or had something else to do" or anything but this.

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International-Aside t1_iyf6zbr wrote

Do you live together? Whats the overall quality of the relationship? Something tells me this is just the tip of the iceberg

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Enough_throwaway3690 t1_iyf7ffb wrote

Not yet. But we're planning to in a few months (probably get engaged too). We're good otherwise. Nothing else has changed (or at least that's what I know).

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Sm00gz t1_iyf8mr2 wrote

I feel like there are too many missing details here for me to even have an opinion and if youre going on 9 years this seems kinda petty.

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