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t1_iycytu9 wrote

As long as you communicate ahead. The sooner you do then the better. But then also make an effort to make a reschedule, if you flop then it's on you to make amends if you actually care to make it work.

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OP t1_iyczn5b wrote

Tbh I don’t think I wanna go at all

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t1_iyd0osc wrote

Then you can even say, I just to be honest am not feeling a connection.

But I usually say always go on ONE date and the person COULD surprise you on how they are in person. But if you've done that already OR if it really just doesn't feel good at all then do what's best for you. Cut ties and move on just be vocal and don't Ghost :)

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OP t1_iyd1130 wrote

I haven’t been on a date yet. But I dunno. I’ve got a feeling she won’t want to go now. I got quite a blunt reply.

I feel like I always talk myself out of things. I would like a gf. Then I get excited, ask for a date, then the more I start to think and question, I end up not wanting to go. I find something that puts me off

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