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AmsterdamJimmy420 t1_iydsb6w wrote

Why doesn’t he defend you? If my parents had said that about my wife I woulda told them to enjoy the rest of their lives together

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[deleted] OP t1_iydsm0e wrote

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Emptyplates t1_iydu98z wrote

Yup, I agree with the other reply, he's picked his side and it's not yours.

Now you have to decide what you want to do with that information. Personally? I'd walk.

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[deleted] OP t1_iydu7te wrote

It only works if the partner with hating parents choosed stepping up for their significant other and cuts contact with them. In any other instance, it usually doesn't work out long term.

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FireRescue3 t1_iyduxc1 wrote

Is there room? Sure. They can feel any kind of way they want.

Should you put up with it? That’s your decision.

Your guy is an adult. He’s almost 30. Does he want to be an independent individual or remain a child? Do you want to be with a man or a child?

After two years of a relationship, he should know where his priorities are. So should you. Since you do, are you willing to continue like this?

My son is 27. His girlfriend of 2.5 years is 32. Do I agree with everything she/they do? I do not. Does that matter? It does not.

The idea of my son being “in hot water” with us is laughable. He can’t get in trouble with us because he is no longer a child. He is an adult, capable of making his own decisions.

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