Is there room? Sure. They can feel any kind of way they want.

Should you put up with it? That’s your decision.

Your guy is an adult. He’s almost 30. Does he want to be an independent individual or remain a child? Do you want to be with a man or a child?

After two years of a relationship, he should know where his priorities are. So should you. Since you do, are you willing to continue like this?

My son is 27. His girlfriend of 2.5 years is 32. Do I agree with everything she/they do? I do not. Does that matter? It does not.

The idea of my son being “in hot water” with us is laughable. He can’t get in trouble with us because he is no longer a child. He is an adult, capable of making his own decisions.