>she's always been weird about me locking doors to the point she ripped the lock off my own door. I remember she even unlocked my phone to secretly block a boy I was texting and in general has shamed me about topics surrounding stuff like this, not to mention SO MUCH other shit.

How long until you move out? Get out of there.

In the meantime, disable the camera permanently. You're not beholden to anything she recorded. If she brings anything up, it's a violation of your privacy. State that! "I'm not talking about this, you violated my privacy. Erase all that footage."

If you feel it's necessary, you could threaten legal action.

In the meantime keep your head down and focus on putting your time in to move out and get healthy boundaries