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ckent_11 t1_j6obqze wrote

First, I'm sorry for this loss and for the pain you are going through. I wish you healing and restoration.

Second, IMO I would want to know. The first letter of FWB stands for "Friend"...

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desdmona t1_j6ocivu wrote

I'm so sorry that you are going through this right now. Expected or not, it's not an easy thing to go through.

You should tell your fwb. I assume he is, first and foremost a friend. And secondly, he'll probably want to take more/better precautions moving forward.

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amorehappyversion t1_j6paywh wrote

Yes you should. If he isn’t a good enough friend to provide some comfort, why are you fucking him?

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UnsightlyFuzz t1_j6oifc2 wrote

I'd probably wait until I had a definitive answer from the doctor. For now, I would either tell the FWB that I'm not feeling well, some cramping, whatever, and waiting for the doctor's input; or just brush it off with a dismissive answer such as busy today, can't really talk much. That's just me, and it might not be the right choice for you.

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