StarryCloudRat t1_j6p7lyv wrote on January 31, 2023 at 10:35 PM

I think it’s weird to expect someone to delete all evidence of their past relationships once they’re in a new one. They were an important part of her life, there’s no more reason to delete them than you would delete pictures of a dead family member or a friend you lost touch with. What feels threatening to you about her seeing a picture of her ex?

Far_Cardiologist6247 OP t1_j6phg3d wrote on January 31, 2023 at 11:41 PM

I guess what made me feel bad was recently there was a video of her ex jokingly giving her a lap dance, and obviously I would hate to see someone I love with someone else. But what also made me feel weird was her reaction afterwards and how quick she was to hide it away.