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nightowl2023 t1_j6oyeo5 wrote

My fiancé wants to cheat on me.

That's what this post needs to say.

Driving a new way home to see if it's faster is an experiment. You are testing to see if a desired outcome is true or not.

What outcome does sleeping with a guy present him with if he is bisexual? Is he trying to confirm whether or not he likes women? Or his he just trying to "live life" before he gets married?

Personally, I would call this marriage off.

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megtato t1_j6ozu3e wrote

That’s my reasoning behind not being okay with letting him experiment. Because if he prefers sex with men, I’d be heartbroken. If he doesn’t like it, I’d still be heartbroken that it even happened.

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nightowl2023 t1_j6p1myj wrote

The actual problem here is the lack of commitment.

For example, I physically "prefer" women that don't have the body type of my wife and I always have. But that doesn't make it okay to invalidate the commitments I made to her and emphasize my fantasies over her.

Because then I'm no longer happy with the person that I have.

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