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YuutaIgarashi t1_j6paewd wrote

Reply to comment by RoosterPorn in I (M21) am stuck in a roulette of sort, I have a date with my crush (18M) for Valentine day and there's this person (19M) asking me out, what should I do? by [deleted]

It's fine to just say no to the other person? I just don't want to make him sad...

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RoosterPorn t1_j6pasjj wrote

I think you have a reasonable excuse. If he cared about you he’d want you to be happy with your crush on Valentine’s Day.

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cinnamonduck t1_j6pi4pd wrote

Absolutely you can say no! Girl, it is not your job to make men feel better or protect their feelings. What about what you want? Put yourself first. Never say yes to a date or anything else just because someone wants it and you don’t want to hurt their feelings. That’s not fair to you. As women were conditioned to cater to everyone’s needs above our own, especially mens. I’m here to tell you to stop doing this, and give you permission to put your needs and wants first.

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