lemmehelpyaout t1_j6o0iiw wrote on January 31, 2023 at 6:08 PM

First of all, you should straight up ask him how he's feeling about things if you've felt like the vibes are off.

Secondly, from an outsider perspective, I think you should temper your expectations a little bit more to keep your own feelings from getting hurt. This guy is relatively fresh off a breakup of a decade-long relationship and now he's dating someone ten years younger than him. It kinda reads like he's in a rebound situation at the moment. I would definitely proceed slowly while you're figuring out what you guys are doing.

Chaisechristine t1_j6o1bh6 wrote on January 31, 2023 at 6:13 PM

I know. I was just giving it a little time considering i’ve only felt this way for two days. If it continues through the week I was definitely gonna mention something.

I did consider that as well, about being a rebound. It was just confusing because he was the one that brought up what we were doing and told me he liked me a lot. Up until that point I literally had zero expectations because I knew he was getting out of a long relationship.