My (24F) boyfriend’s (25M) best friend (25M) told me to put my lips on his drink

Submitted by ThrowRA104848 t3_10qck25 in relationship_advice

I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 5 years and they’ve been best friends for 10.

My boyfriend’s best friend told me to try his beer. Normally I waterfall drinks when I’m sharing them with people. This time, he told me to put my lips on it when I tried it. My boyfriend wasn’t in the room at the time.

He’s also been touchy with me (touching my arm when there is someone between us while taking photos together; touching my hand when we are both holding a door open to go through it; brushing my hand when we hand each other things).

I’m not sure if this means he’s hitting on me. What should I do?

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trishsf t1_j6p6rts wrote

Tell his friend to quit touching you. End of.

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modernbilquis77 t1_j6p77d4 wrote

He's testing the waters to see how far you will let him go. Tell your boyfriend and tell the friend to quit it

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The_Crowley89 t1_j6p7z5q wrote

Tell your boyfriend that he needs to have a talk about that with his best friend before it turns into a habit/pattern that can potentially ruin it for everyone.

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