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Drudicta t1_j87jjzo wrote

Reply to comment by reddituser567853 in Large study provides evidence that goal incongruence can harm romantic relationship satisfaction by glum-platimium

Well yeah, she specifically said to be the stay at home person.

Would have been nice to have had some communication that it was no longer enough.

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C4-BlueCat t1_j88c2k0 wrote

Did the two of you make the initial decision to have one person home together?

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Drudicta t1_j88y4fo wrote

We did. But she changed her mind later down the road without saying anything until she got so mad that she suddenly broke up without any indication

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reddituser567853 t1_j88sp3a wrote

If your father never taught you this, he should have.

Never ever agree to a situation like this. Maybe if you are married and have a child, but then only short term.

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Drudicta t1_j88yatz wrote

The only thing the parents taught was how to drink alcohol, smoke meth and abuse children.

Have had to learn everything alone.

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